梦想的破灭 Crushing Dreams

in r2cornell •  last year 

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The movie "Life" let me see the disillusionment of two dreams, one was Qiaozhen's yearning for a better love, the other was Gao Jialin's pursuit of a better future life, but their dreams were finally shattered. So, where was the root cause of their dream disillusionment?

Qiaozhen was a kind and innocent girl. She liked the handsome, educated and aspiring young man Gao Jialin in her heart. She also dared to pursue her love. She saved money and gave it to Gao Jialin to improve his life. Afraid that Gao Jialin was cold in his dorm in the city, Qiaozhen sent him the dog skin mat of her family.

Qiaozhen imagined her happy love in her mind, but her dream was finally shattered. Gao Jialin didn't like a rural girl who had no culture, nor did he want to tie himself to the rural land from then on. His love story with Qiaozhen is just a temporary consolation for his inner wounds - his teacher's work was replaced by the son of the village secretary, and the depressed Gao Jialin now needed to be cared for. After entering the city and meeting Huang Yaping, Gao Jialin decided to break up with Qiaozhen.

The tragedy of Qiaozhen lied in that she completely entrusted her happy life to Gao Jialin. So devoted and infatuated, Qiaozhen did not consider whether Gao Jialin was worthy of her lifelong commitment.

Gao Jialin wanted to go out of the countryside. He had his own dream, but he despised the countryside in his bones. Qiaozhen gave him a dog skin mat, but he was afraid of being seen by his colleagues and being laughed at. When he went to the city to sell steamed bread, he was ashamed to be seen by someone he knew.
Gao Jialin got a job in the city, which was inseparable from his uncle. Whether his uncle knew it or not, in short, it was influenced by his uncle's power. From the countryside to the city, the change of identity was not made by Gao Jialin himself. People who live in a sea of bitterness, would rush to save their lives when they get a straw.

Gao Jialin's arrangement to work in the city was finally exposed. Not only was his uncle dismissed, but Gao Jialin returned to the countryside.

Gao Jialin tried his best to leave the countryside, even hated the countryside, and was willing to seize all the opportunities available. He didn't calm down to measure himself correctly, find a suitable life path, and then work hard for it. He also entrusted his happiness, his dreams - love and career - to others, and finally they were all destroyed.

When you place your happiness or dreams on others, you will only get the disillusionment of your dreams and happiness, no matter how colorful they look.

电影《人生》让我看到了两个梦想的破灭,一个是巧珍对美好爱情的向往,一个是高加林对人生美好前程的追求,可他们两人的梦想最终都破灭了。那么,造成他们梦想破灭的根源在哪里?

巧珍是个善良、纯真的好姑娘,她在内心喜欢那个长得帅气、有文化、有追求的年轻人高加林。她也大胆去追求自己的爱情,她省吃俭用,把攒下来的钱送给高加林,让他改善生活。担心高加林在城里住的宿舍里冻着,巧珍把家里的狗皮褥子拿给他用。

巧珍在心里描绘着自己幸福的爱情,可她的梦想最终破灭了。高加林并不喜欢一个没有文化的农村姑娘,更不愿把自己从此拴在农村的土地上。他与巧珍的谈情说爱,不过是暂时为自己内心的创伤找到了一丝慰藉——自己的教师工作被大队书记的儿子顶替了,低落、消沉的高加林此时需要的是被关爱。进了城以后,遇到了黄亚萍,高加林才决心与巧珍分手。

巧珍的悲剧就在于,她把自己的幸福生活完全寄托在了高加林的身上,一往情深,痴心不改。巧珍没有考虑到,高加林是不是值得她托付终身。

高加林一心想走出农村,他有自己的梦想,可他骨子里又瞧不起农村。巧珍送给他狗皮褥子,他害怕被同事看到,怕人笑话;他进城卖馒头,又拉不下脸面。

高加林进城有了工作,离不开他叔叔的关系,无论他叔叔知晓还是不知晓,总之,是靠着他叔叔的权力的影响。从农村到城市,身份上的改变,所有这一切都不是高加林自己奋斗来的。生活在苦海中的人,捞到了一根救命的稻草,谁不会争先恐后呢?

高加林走关系安排工作进城的事最终被人告发,不只是他的叔叔被撤了职,高加林又重新回到了农村。

高加林竭力脱离开农村,甚至厌恶农村,不惜抓住一切可以利用的机会。他没有静下心来正确地衡量自己,找到一条适合自己的人生道路,然后为之拼搏。他同样把自己的幸福、自己的梦想——爱情和事业,寄托在了别人的身上,最终也同样破灭了。

当你把自己的幸福或者梦想等寄托在别人的身上,最终收获的只能是梦想、幸福的破灭,无论其看起来是多么的绚丽多彩。

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