人生的最佳状态 The Best State of Life

in r2cornell •  last year 

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Some people say that the best state of life is to give out your own light without impeding others to shine. You are neither jealous nor ashamed of the dazzling light emitted by others. I feel the same way about this.

1.Give out one's own light

Giving out your own light can not only illuminate yourself, but also others, and finally attract others' attention. If you want to attract Bole's attention, the horse connoiseur, you must first become a pure breed horse that can sustain long-distance rides. Otherwise, how can it attract others' attention if it is dim? Giving out light here refers to continuous efforts, working hard and achievements.

A person who does not shine, does not work hard and does nothing is doomed to have a mediocre life, which is certainly not the best state of life. If you want to get a good state, you must shine your own light.

In the 1990s, the working and living conditions of teachers in rural middle schools were very difficult and very poor. Moreover, at that time, teachers' salaries were paid by township government, which were not paid on time, and often misappropriated. There was once a joke that could explain the situation of the teachers at that time. It said that in the early morning of winter, there were few people on the road. At that time, there were vegetable vendors and teachers who rode by quickly.

There was a young teacher, let's call him Mr. Guo. He was not satisfied with the current situation, so he decided to take the postgraduate examination. In summer, the sun was scorching, and the single dormitory was very stuffy, so he had to soak his feet in cold water to keep cool. In winter, he had a quilt draped around his body to keep warm. In this way, after a lot of efforts, Mr. Guo finally accepted the graduate student of Shandong University of Science and Technology, which was also called Shandong Institute of Mining and Technology at that time.

Mr. Guo learned to shine and then illuminate his way forward, so he went further.

2.Do not hinder others from shining

Everyone is an independent individual, enjoying freedom and rights, but such freedom and rights are based on not damaging the freedom and interests of others. In other words, let others shine when you shine, and do not prevent others from shining. But in real life, in order to highlight themselves, some people will try their best to block or even extinguish the light given out by others.

For example, in the fierce competition, some people, in order to achieve their own goals, set obstacles for others and do things against others.

In a good development environment, it is really good that everyone is good, and the multipolar development of the world is also the premise of establishing a good order. It is the best state to shine by yourself and not hinder others.

3.Neither envious nor ashamed of the dazzling light of others

It is impossible to say that you are not influenced when others shine. The key is how to treat it. It is inevitable to have a little envy, but we should not be jealous, and we should not be ashamed of ourselves.

Everyone's success has complex subjective and objective factors, which cannot be generalized, let alone blindly compared. Everyone's family and background are different, so everyone's success cannot be compared. Some people are born with a daily life, which may be the goal of some people for life.

Don't be arrogant and conceited or think lightly of oneself. Give out your own light, don't lose your independent self, and keep your unique and shining light.

有人说人生的最佳状态,就是发自己的光,也不妨碍别人发光,对别人发出的耀眼的光,既不嫉妒也不自惭形秽。对此,我深有同感。

一、发自己的光

发光,既能照亮自己,也能照亮别人,最终还能引起别人的注视。要想引起伯乐的重视,你首先要成为一匹千里马。否则,黯淡无光,怎会引起别人的关注呢?这里的发光指的就是要不断努力,要有所作为,有所成就,才能自带光芒。

一个人不发光,不努力,碌碌无为,注定只能是平庸的一生,这当然不是人生的最佳状态。而若想获得一种好的状态,就必须发自己的光。

上世纪九十年代,农村中学老师的工作和生活条件是很艰苦的,办公和生活条件简陋得很,况且那时教师的工资归乡镇发放,教师工资不按时发放,还经常被挪用。曾经有一个笑话可以说明当时老师的状况,说冬日里的大清早,路上很少有人,而这时骑着自行车疾驶而过的,一是菜贩子,二是老师。

有一位青年老师,我们姑且称之为郭老师,他不满足于现状,便立志考研。夏日里,烈日炎炎,单身宿舍里很是闷热,他只好把脚泡在凉水里去热;冬日里,他把被子披在身上取暖。就这样经过一番努力,郭老师最终考取了山东科技大学的研究生,那时学校还叫山东矿业学院。

郭老师就是学会了发光,然后照亮自己前行的路,所以才走的很更远。

二、不妨碍别人发光

每个人都是一个独立的个体,享有着自由和权利,但这种自由和权利是建立在不损害他人自由和利益的基础之上的。也就是说,自己发光,也要让别人发光,不能妨碍别人发光。可现实生活中,有的人为了突出自己,会想方设法,动些歪脑筋,遮挡甚至掐灭别人发出的光。

比如,激烈的竞争中,有的人为了达到自己的目的,便人为设置障碍,做出不利于他人的事情。

而在一个良好的发展环境中,大家好才是真正的好,而世界多极发展,也是建立良好秩序的前提。自己发光,也不妨碍别人发光,大家共同发展,这才是最佳的状态。

三、对别人发出的耀眼的光,既不嫉妒也不自惭形秽

别人发出的耀眼的光,如果说自己没有一点心动,那是不可能的,关键是如何对待。多少有点羡慕在所难免,但不可有妒忌的心理,更不能自惭形秽,自卑而放弃努力了。

每个人的成功都有着复杂的主观和客观上的因素,不能一概而论,更不能盲目攀比。每个人的家庭和背景不同,所以每个人的成功也就不能相提并论,有的人一出生就具有的日常,可能是有的人一生为之奋斗的目标。

不狂妄自大,也不妄自菲薄,不卑不亢,发自己的光,不丢失独立的自我,众彩纷呈,也能保持自己独特而闪耀的光。

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Jealous, sometimes the cause of being disconnected from the people. We are surrounded by people we call friends, all of them having different values and characters that we never know until such scenarios came over along the way.

There might be one or more of them feeling threatened when you accomplish something good in your life. There are also "them" who look you down during your battle in pursuing your dreams (even your family) and will just remember your name when you're already shining.

Of course, Not all of them. There are real people that are ready to accept all your flaws and help you to write your story chapter by chapter.

Peace of mind, is being proud, happy and grateful to what you have and what your friends, neighbors, family have accomplished all throughout with their journey.


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Sorry for my delayed response. First, I highly appreciate your valuable comment from which I have learned many things. Sure, the most important thing in life is the peace of mind, and working hard ignoring others' despising. After all, in the end you can rely only on yourself. Good day to you, my dear friend.


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